I was disappointed to read that the team I wrote about the other day didn't find conclusive evidence to finally solve the mystery of Amelia Earhart's final days, but I appreciated the growth mindset in the subject line of the email update. "The search for Amelia continues," it read, and the message ended with an upbeat summary, capped by a quote from Earhart: "Adventure is worthwhile in itself."
Walking the Dog
Monday, October 19, 2026
Sunday, October 18, 2026
The Pear Doesn't Fall Far From the Tree
Lately, Heidi has been crazy about pears. After I bought a bag with a half dozen pretty pears, she's been enjoying one every night after dinner, and we're on our 4th bag. Coincidentally, she received what seemed like a spam email message from her late dad, with the subject line "Pear Season."
It turned out to be an annual reminder that Gary set for himself to start eating pears in September. Her brother still manages their dad's email account, and he forwarded the message with affection.
"Pears are definitely like that," Heidi laughed. "You never think you want them until you have a good one. I guess my dad didn't want to forget that!"
Saturday, October 17, 2026
Local Color
We wanted to walk somewhere new, but we didn't want to drive too far, which is a pretty big challenge when you've lived in the same area since 1989.
I hemmed and hawed about it all day, until finally, around 4:30, it occurred to me that despite seeing them scores of times while whizzing by in cars, I'd never actually walked around the Marine Corps Monument and the Netherlands Carillon, so off we went.
I didn't think parking would be a challenge at that time of day, and I was right, but our plan to add a loop through Arlington Cemetery was a no-go since they closed at 5. Even so, we put together a couple of miles, spent some time admiring both landmarks and the view, and enjoying the crisp fall weather.
And we even got a carillon concert!
Friday, October 16, 2026
The Scoop
Thursday, October 15, 2026
Whatever it Takes
Heidi was home a little early today so that we could take Lucy to the vet. Once our dog got a [relatively] clean bill of health, I suggested going to the gym.
"But what about my baby?" Heidi asked in alarm.
"Lucy will be fine," I shrugged. "We won't be gone that long."
"No!" Heidi said. "What about my other baby?"
I thought for a minute. "Pebbles?" I asked, and she nodded. "I guess we can stop to see her on our way home."
"Fine!" Heidi replied. "But I'm only going because I get to hold the baby after."
Wednesday, October 14, 2026
A Hot Day in October
Tuesday, October 13, 2026
Friendly Adversaries
It's never fun to win at bowling when someone else is having a bad day, but that's what happened today. We were competing against one of the teams tied for first place, and their first bit of bad luck came when their best bowler called to say she couldn't make it. That means her score was "blind" or preset at her average minus 10 percent.
The team member with the second-highest average bowled 30 pins below her average in the first game and was very upset when she didn't even break 100. She felt terrible, but her teammate consoled her. "We're just here for the fellowship!"
Even so, when we got to the tenth frame in the next game, that player had a tough but not impossible split. "You can do it!" I cheered, and then, looking at the scoreboard, added, "If you do, you can break 100!"
She smiled ruefully, then took a deep breath and knocked those pins to Murgatroyd. "Thank you!" she said.
"You have to get at least 6 on your extra ball, though," I informed her.
She threw her ball down the lane and took out exactly 6, and the rest of us celebrated like it was a turkey.
"You knew just what I needed to hear!" she told me.
I winked. "Next game you'll probably bowl average. You're just building up to it."
"Wouldn't that be nice?" she sighed.
Our team ended up winning 3 of the 4 points and knocking them out of first place. She did bowl her best game in the third, though, and saved them from a sweep.