Reading the Signs

I handed the clipboard with the candidate petition on it back to the volunteer standing outside the station vestibule. "Thanks," she said and, turning to the teenagers with me, asked, "Is this your first march?"

When they nodded, she continued. "Have fun! Pay attention to the signs-- you'll see some great ones!"

A little while later, the woman sitting next to me on the Metro asked, "Are you going to the march?"

"Yes," I nodded.

"We are too," she said.

"I figured," I replied. "I noticed your sign."

"I made it for the last one," she sighed. 

"I can't believe you still have it eight years later," I told her.

"I can't believe I need it again." She shook her head, and the train pulled into our station. "Have..." she paused and shrugged. "Fun? At the March." Then she smiled wryly and joined her group.

"You too," I called after her, but she had already disappeared into the crowd.

Wonderland

A trace of snow had fallen last night when I took Lucy for her last out of the day. Our weather has been so unseasonably cold that most of the snow from the storm 10 days ago is still on the ground, and this new dusting cleaned it all up, making it sparkle and gleam in the moonlight. 

This is the type of winter I want every year! I thought. One or two big storms and weather cold enough that there's never any slush. Then, a little sprinkle of new snow every week or so to keep things looking clean. It's perfect!

I took a nice deep breath of the frosty air and tromped back to the house in my warm coat and boots, determined to enjoy it while it lasts.

What's the Name of this Blog?

I'm in the habit of using my smartwatch to track any outdoor walking I do over a mile or so. I'm interested in my pace, but I also like seeing my route on a map along with other features, such as elevation gain. (We have enough hills around here that I try to include some good ups and downs in every walk.)

These days, however, I do most of my walking with our dog Lucy, and she's more interested in her own data, like what other animals followed this trail recently and where they peed and pooped. She also enjoys leaving a calling card for those dogs who will follow, and so there is way more squatting than nature demands.

As such, we are often at cross purposes. I don't mind a little sniffing, but I'm out for the walking. Lucy couldn't disagree more, and she is perfectly content to let me know that keeping her nose down, putting on the brakes, and pulling hard off to the side. It can be maddening, but she probably feels the same way about being jerked along.

Today, when my watch announced that our split pace for mile one was over thirty minutes, I let out an agonized groan of frustration and then made Lucy sit. I told her that we were not there just to sniff, sniff, SNIFF! We had to walk, too, and do so together. Did she understand!? 

Perhaps the pep talk worked, or maybe her nose was tired, but the split pace for our second mile was 22 minutes. 

And although it wasn't as fast as I wished, it was a compromise, and I was, after all, walking the dog.

No Dogs Allowed

When it comes to meditation, our cat Milo is my guy. He offers consistent companionship; whether I am practicing live, online, or with a recording, he is usually by my side. Our other cat, Tibby, is the opposite. When she hears the slightest hint of mantra or meditative music she runs from the room. Lucy, the dog, is ordinarily otherwise indisposed because I most commonly practice when she and Heidi are on their morning walk.

That was not the case yesterday, however. It was around 10 a.m. when I clicked the link to catch up with what I'd missed earlier that morning. As usual, Tibby fled and Milo moved to the mat, but when Lucy heard the sound of activity coming from the next room, she came to see what the fuss was. That was her mistake: Milo charged the door, claws out and hissing.

Never mind light and love. Apparently? This was our special time.

Squeeze Play

 "We're having fish fry," I announced to Heidi, "and salad for dinner." 

I thought it might cheer her up after a tough day at work, and it seemed to. Even so, when she went upstairs, I calculated how long it might take were I to add another item to the menu. We had everything we needed for a small batch of Heidi's mom's potato salad recipe ( a favorite comfort food), but time was a consideration, too.

I put on a pot of water with an egg in it to boil and peeled the potatoes. Then I diced the celery and a little onion and placed them in a bowl. I added a splash of cider vinegar and some salt to give them a quick pickle before turning to the fridge. There, I gathered squeeze bottles of dill relish, sweet relish, sour cream, mustard, and mayonnaise. They were in the bowl and back in the refrigerator in less than a minute, a testament to their convenience.

I diced the potatoes and put them in the pot with the egg. Six minutes later, both were cooked. I drained the potatoes and put a dish towel over them to steam a bit, then I ran the egg under cold water, peeled and chopped it. The final step was tossing it all together.

Elapsed time? Fifteen minutes.

"You made potato salad?" Heidi asked happily when she came back down from her shower. "Thank you!"

"No problem!" I answered, and it was true.

What You Really, Really Want

It took me a while to get there, but in the last decade or so of my teaching career, I chose not to make a big deal out of it when a student wasn't prepared with a pencil or other writing utensil. Instead, I simply ordered enough pencils to supply anyone who was without. Oh, it was still an expectation of the class for students to bring something to write with, but if they didn't, I was prepared.

Of course, it was galling to me initially, and a part of me was a little irritated right up until the end that whoever it was couldn't bother to come prepared for school, but I knew that wasn't always the case. In sixth grade, it's not necessarily an enormous character flaw to forget or even "forget" a pencil. Sometimes, it might have been a case of laziness, for sure, but most of the time, it was a function of disorganization, inattention, lack of means, or even the desire to stick it to the teacher. 

In every one of those cases, it was better for me to give the kid a pencil and move on. I realized that my objective was not to investigate or scold someone for not having what they needed. My main purpose wasn't even to build character or responsibility, either; I was there to teach English, and if someone needed a pencil to help learn the lesson I planned, then bless their heart, they could have one, no questions asked.

I bring this up now because our community seems to be inundated by dog shit lately. I know, both because I've noticed myself and because, as a board member, Heidi has received several complaints. We have many dogs in the complex, and so we have trashcans and bags positioned throughout the neighborhood. One of these clean-up stations has been without bags for a couple weeks, and the conversation has focused on that a bit. 

"I kind of feel that, as a dog owner, those bags are nice to have, not need to have," commented one board member. "Shouldn't all dog owners be prepared when they take their dog out?"

She's not wrong, but there has been poop spotted even in the vicinity of stations that are equipped with bags. "We should send out a strongly-worded message!" suggested another.

Heidi was still mad when we talked about it later. "I wish we could get cameras and fine people who don't pick up after their dogs!" she said.

"Maybe we should just hire somebody to clean it up," I said.

"The board will never go for that." She shook her head. "And why should we? People are supposed to pick up after their dogs!"

"I agree," I replied, "but is it your objective to teach people a lesson about good dog ownership by scolding and punishing them when we can catch them, or is it to get rid of the poop?" I knew she would get it-- Heidi has a huge supply of pencils her classroom.

So far, the rest of the board doesn't quite see it that way. That strongly-worded email is going out tomorrow.

Perfect Timing

The air was soft and still, and evening shadows painted the snow purple as Lucy and I stepped out a little while ago. The door was barely closed when she pulled urgently toward the woods across the way, and I saw two deer feeding there. They saw us, too, but they never moved a single step away, even as we passed within yards of them. A full moon shone low on the horizon, hundreds of crows cawed raucously in the trees above, and I just knew it would be a good walk.